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 .jpg)  Our Lil Princess: Amabel Loh Birthday: 21 August 2006 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 38weeks 3days Weight at Birth: 3.005kg Length at Birth: 47cm Breastfeed: 14 months  Our 2nd Lil Princess: Aisleyne Loh Birthday: 15 August 2008 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 39weeks 2days Weight at Birth: 3.010kg Length at Birth: 48cm Breastfeed: 3 years+  |
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title: Words that speak loud
date: Thursday, June 30, 2016 time : 11:00 AM
Man that not worth your love!!
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title: 人来了，然后他有一天一定要走。
date: Monday, March 07, 2016 time : 5:23 PM
人两手空空来，两手空空走。
人来了，然后他有一天一定要走。 然后走的时候，你真的什么也带不走。 你就只剩下最后你能保养很好的骨头，但也要。。也得被敲碎的。 不是吗？！ 原来生命只是一个过程， 过程就是你要去享受开心的痛。。痛原来是这样子痛，哭原来是这样子。 所以你要把这些都享受完，你就是。。你在活着。 没有了就没有了。 其实每一个喜怒哀乐你可以感受到，都是因为你活着。 人家总是对我说，你不要难过，你不要生气，你不要不好的什么什么。。 可是我觉得，好的，不好的， 我都要接受要去做，你才完整地过了一个生活。 为什么要抗拒，要压抑着呢。 我不会去抗拒这些那些，怕这些那些，所以痛一下，气一下也没关系。 痛就痛，生气就生气嘛，不需要装开心。 我从不伪装，不压抑着情绪。 人不要有心机就好。 去好好享受人生中的喜怒哀乐。 Labels: Share, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Sisterhood of motherhood
date: Tuesday, April 07, 2015 time : 2:09 PM
Powerful message...
Yes, it's a formula commercial but what matter is the ending that you must watch The whole point is...an end to judgement; it doesn't matter if you're breastfeed or formula feed because you both love your children the same. Or whether you are more busy with kids or not, don't need to say out and no one have to feel guilty whether they're a SAHM or a working mom, as we provided the best we can for our children. All parents have their difficulties to make such choices. Afterall, we are all busy mom, 24/7 to attend to our children. Be it to our child or others, there are still those of us that worry about everyone else children too! So, no matter what our beliefs, we are parents first Labels: Motherhood, Parenting, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Daughters are always so special !!
date: Friday, September 13, 2013 time : 11:10 AM  Labels: Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Heartbreaking!
date: Friday, May 10, 2013 time : 9:45 AM Heartbreaking image by an Iraqi artist taken in an orphanage. This little girl has never seen her mother, so she drew a mom on the ground and fell asleep with her...  Juz couldn't stop my tears seeing this image. Not every kid has a mom, treasure what you have! Labels: Share, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Stop judging, this makes you no better than them!
date: Wednesday, April 10, 2013 time : 8:22 AM Been real busy with work and life lately, so much things and photos to update yet I got too little time for that. Only have little free time during morning and evening journey to and back office and home, during lunch and before bed. Extremely stressful lately cause of the endless work. Saw the youtube video on Tyra - Panel of Hates this morning on the bus, so made me wanna share this... Check out their other videos in youtube Who are you to judge?! Just because a person don't have the same negative views as you. Just because a person appearance don't look presentable / perfect to you, just because a person don't agree with your negative points, the negative words you said, the negative things you did...just because you can't accept it, you blind yourself by saying negative comments and judgement on those people. I see how scary these people are (I met one! thanks god only one, one dishonest person that don't worth it as a friend), saying words that sound like trying to make own self appear like a great angel and bring others down. You make no better than anyone else. Calling someone fake won’t make you real. Calling someone ugly won’t make you pretty. Calling someone stupid won’t make you smart. And look at yourself... be it look, attitude or personality, before judging others. Saying that makes you no better than them. It is an unnecessary burden to make negative judgmental assumptions about others. We are all on a journey. “By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.” Labels: My views, She says, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Home Visit the Needy families
date: Thursday, November 08, 2012 time : 10:59 AM The moment hus stepped into the house at 10ish last night, he cannot wait to share his home visit to the low income families which really made him heart-wrenching. They came to this 1-room flat unit and seen through the window, a little girl whose age about the same as Amabel (~5 or 6 years old) sitting in the living room watching TV with the house lights all off. She has two sibling who is much younger than her (about 2 years old to Aisleyne's age of 4) were sleeping. When they asked the little girl through the window "Where is your parent?". She diffidently replied "Went to work!". It seems so normal for the little girl, seems like she is so use to it already. Apparently, the kids have been left at home ‘on many occasions’ when the mother went to work. We feel so pity for the children. After all, they are still such a young toddler to take care of themselves and at a stage where the need the mother cuddle and care the most! At that moment of the thought.... pressure built in my chest and my heart felt as though it would burst with emotion. Eyes turn red... I can't imagine if I were there, I will burst out crying! If you are a parent, you would understand how I feel hearing this. I really don't know what to comment about a mother who left the children unsupervised because of the need to work to support the family. I do feel the mother is cruel and irresponsible but I know it would be a struggle for the mother to left the children at home alone. They are in poverty that could be no one to turn to for help, they are poor that they couldn't employ a nanny or maid for help but if they don't work, how am they going to survive?! Usually these parents are likely to have limited education and so lack the knowledge of who they can really help them and the necessary to promote health and positive developmental outcomes in their children. These children living in poverty are precariously housed, suffer from impaired health, and delinquency than children from much wealthy families. Another is a family of just a father and a young girl who is also about the same age as Amabel. The wife left him, leaving their only daughter with him. The father was suffering with kidney failure and his legs was already amputated and so is on wheelchair. How am the father going to support her younger daughter with his illness disability and medical expenses. The father may not even able to take care of himself, how am he going to take care of his young daughter. They suggested to send the little girl to orphanage for their good. Though is better for both but I know it is a torture for them to be separated.  So my girls, you should feel blessed that you are not the one going through this. I, myself don't really like to complain much about anything, cause I KNOW I'm so much blessed than a lot of needy out there. In a way that will feel if I were to complain so much on the endless housework, the nasty office work, nasty people I met, the need to take care my children with no help from maid or family members. What about this people living in poverty around the world, struggling with life and with no help and financial ability at all? We are lot more better than them! So please count your blessings!   Labels: Share, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Bless their little hearts!
date: Tuesday, November 06, 2012 time : 7:32 AM They're so poor...they can't choose, without choice.  I am a mom, and to see this really breaks my heart in tear in a ways that cannot be described. I felt sorry for these kids that we are not helping enough. Pray to bless their little hearts! No matter how early you have to drag yourself up from bed, how uncomfortable you have to sleep , where you have to sleep. You're million better than those kids there.   My girls, we must be grateful for everything we have! Labels: Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Basic home safety
date: Monday, October 08, 2012 time : 1:28 AM Was damn pissed with hus just now. This is not the first time but the second time I caught him. The first time, I had a huge argument with him that I didn't talk to him for a few days. Luckily I heard him before my elder girl, Amabel, really do it for him. That's happened last year if I remembered. And today again!! I heard him shouting out to Amabel to help him switch off the TV electric socket for him, just because he is busy with his new iphone and lazy to walk out of the room to switch it off himself. I fired up and stopped Amabel from doing what her dad asking her to and told her never ever touch any electric socket even if her daddy or anyone force her to, cause it is very dangerous, if not careful, 'you will DIE'. So yes I had an argument and cold war with Hus now and that I want shoving my middle finger at his face and scold him knnbccb if he appears in front of me again. Come on, you so love your kids, but i cannot understand why you can neglect the basic safety on children. Children are naturally interested in cords and plugs and their curiosity could lead to serious accidents. This is common knowledge. You asking a kid to switch off or on an electric socket, they may ended up playing with it cause of their curiosity. What if the kid touch the electric switch with wet finger or sticks wet fingers into an outlet, or even worse if the kid sticks a piece of metal into an outlet, electrocution is a definite possibility. Electrocution frequently results in death. There are lot of kids die every year by electrocution. This is the same as allowing your kid to go near a stove to cook, is all the same as pushing your child to death and danger. I'm one who want my kids to be independent at most things at young age but I will definitely not allow my children to touch any electric outlet, go near the window and get close to stove, even not to say to hold the spatula and wok to cook, before they enter teenage age. This is too dangerous!! Seriously, wake up your mind! If you are one  Labels: Educate, My views, Roles of a Father, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Katie Piper - Truly an inspiration
date: Friday, March 09, 2012 time : 10:58 AM Came across this blog post this morning, "if you ever think that you are somehow unfortunate in life, you are always unhappy about something, you need some inspiration, think about people like Katie piper who made it through hell and yet she can still bring out a beautiful smile on her face. so what still keeping you from smiling while facing your own obstacles in life ??? No matter how life tear you apart in someway, don't give up you'll live through it, think about your love one, your parents, your family and those who love you. if she can make it so can you, with lots of love and respect for Katie Piper for being such an inspiration. remember ...... Life is like an hourglass...... eventually everything hits the bottom, and all you have to do is wait it out until someone comes along and turn it around again. " Read this and you got to agree... http://mary-aslifegoesby.blogspot.com/2011/05/katie-piper-who.html Labels: Share, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: I knew you care!
date: Monday, February 27, 2012 time : 10:27 AM My sister is a nuisance... My sister is a pain. If it was up to me I'd leave her outside in the rain. But don't you tease my sister or be mean to her at all, 'cause I'll stick up for my baby sister  As we grew up, my sisters acted like they didn't care, but I always knew they looked out for me and were there! Hope they are always there for each other as they grew... and wanna tell my only sis that I'm always there for her too! xo :) 'cause she's my dearest sister. Labels: Sister, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Adelyn Hosehbo 你妈真的白养你了！!
date: Wednesday, November 02, 2011 time : 11:51 PM   After the posting, she next posted, 'From now onwards I don't have any mother already.' and started chiding her foulness  She also posing for picture with 2 packs of cigarettes seems like no big deal.  Anyway here a video of Singapore joker Steven Lim stepped in  Another STOMPer also came across a facebook posting by a girl who bragged about having slapped another girl at Cineleisure.   What's wrong with kids nowadays?? Our country is doomed..I can feel the emotional pain of their mother when their child slapped them and to knew that they are proud of their actions. Be it true or not... it is a disgrace to announce it to the world. A mother from carrying you in her womb, earning money to support you to school and never let their child starve and then to see their child being unfilial barbarian. 你们的妈真的白养你们了！! I really hope that Adelyn learns it the hard way after bad feedback from online netizen, media and citizen of Singapore. And now I really pray that my girls won't behave in such a way, I got to spend more time on them disciplining and educating their behavior, attitude, mindset and inculcate virtue in the young. Being respectful and filial to the parent. Labels: Share, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Horror of nursing care home abuse uncovered by spycam video!
date: Friday, June 10, 2011 time : 11:53 AM No one should be abused in such a way... OMG~ agreed that it is already a sad place for them to be stay in and yet still being ill-treated. They should be jailed!!!! Amabel and Aisleyne... PLEASE don't send me to low class nursing home. :P Labels: Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Vomit!!
date: Wednesday, May 04, 2011 time : 3:10 PM If you dare to involve or bring this kind of man home, please don't call me mama.. Labels: Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Sleep Duration and Mortality - The Study
date: Thursday, November 25, 2010 time : 12:02 AM  To stay forever young and beauty and increase longevity. I have to make this entry a fast and short one. No more overwork at night and try to tuck in earlier and sleep for 7 to 8 hours. "In one study, researchers followed over 21,000 twins for more than 22 years. They asked questions about the twins' sleep habits and looked at their longevity. Twins make great research subjects because most of them grew up in the same environment and the have the same (or similar) genetic make-ups."  source: http://longevity.about.com/od/sleephealthandaging/a/sleep_duration.htm I haven't been sleeping enough for so long. This really reminded me, nothing is more important than health, I wouldn't want to slowly kill myself. I wanna stay with my children and still able to wait to be a great-grandma one day. lol~ I shall get 7 hours sleep tonight! Labels: Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Wanna be a gangster then pay for it !
date: Thursday, November 04, 2010 time : 12:11 AM This piece of news is everywhere now. I think is good to post here especially for my kids. A young man gone just like that. But I would said wanna be a gangster then pay for it. Sending my deepest sympathy to his family~ source: http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne...03-245623.html It started out as a quiet and peaceful funeral, but later turned into an angry confrontation. Hundreds of family and friends arrived early morning at the funeral of 19-year-old Republic Polytechnic student Darren Ng in Tampines to send him on his final journey. The teenager was brutally attacked by a group of 10 youths armed with choppers at Downtown East, Pasir Ris on October 30 after getting into a heated argument, reportedly over a "staring incident". He suffered multiple slash wounds and died five hours after being sent to Changi General Hospital. As the hearse carrying Darren Ng's body left the wake, some of his friends turned aggressive and confronted members of the media, even going as far as to push or threaten them. Some used their hands to block the cameras, while others raised their voices and even threatened to throw punches. The group refused to let the media out of their sight, and followed them until they left the location. Three young men, Ho Wui Ming, 20, Tang Jia Min, 21, and Chen Wei Zhen, 19, were charged in court on Wednesday (November 3) with the murder of Darren Ng Wei Jie at the main foyer of Downtown East at Pasir Ris Close on October 30 between 5.30pm and 5.57pm. They allegedly committed the offence with Edward Tay Wei Loong, 18 and several others while being part of an unlawful assembly. Tay is in intensive care after injuring himself while trying to get away from the police. He will be charged in hospital. Ho, Tang and Chen will be back in court next Wednesday. If convicted of murder, each of them faces the mandatory death penalty. source: http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne...03-245623.html  Faint~ saw the news just now, so many people (400+ peoples) attended the funeral but sad to know 60 - relative 40 - frenz 100 - secret society members 200 - KPO kia from the public Really typical Singaporean. KPOs more here @ STOMP one of the culprit' blog, his gang of friends are all hooligan Really have to be careful the friends my kids mix around with next time. Telling myself to spend more time with them and understand them Labels: Words for you 
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title: Everyone will miss him...
date: Wednesday, November 03, 2010 time : 9:20 AM "我爱Bernard 但是他生病了 老天爷看到了 心疼他 不想他受尽皮肉之苦 不想要他打针吃药 所以老天带走他 不让他留在这个世界受苦 这不是老天爷对我们残忍 是因为 他也很爱 Bernard 现在老天把他带回身边 给他一个很好 健康的身体 在回来这个世界上当我的孩子 以后他健康了，就不会再痛 以后 爹地，妈咪 就可以带着你一起出门了 宝贝啊 ♥ 乖乖的牵着菩萨的手手来妈咪的怀里 快点回来妈咪身边哦" Visited Michelle's blog once again, cause I hope she is doing well now without the company of Bernard. And I tears once again seeing her mommy's words to him and the moment after seeing Bernard's pics. He's such a cute charming boy. Everyone will miss him! Labels: Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: Hazes - Hates
date: Wednesday, October 27, 2010 time : 12:55 AM Hazes hit Singapore once again. The sky was enveloped in hazes affected by forest fires in Indonesian.. The air pollution causes peoples especially children and elderly getting sick more easily. Aisleyne just recovered from cough and flu and Amabel jiejie was in fever and cough. I were also coughing badly and with persistent headaches.  Her fever gone down quite fast though still coughing little now. It seem never ending cause Aisleyne caught the new virus again and starts coughing now. Argh.... very sad over it. Just hope both can fully recover soon. NO MORE HAZES PLEASE!! - Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone Labels: ranting, Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
title: My condolences to her and her family
date: Saturday, October 23, 2010 time : 2:27 PM 你是我的肉 我的血 我的骨 我的生命 quoted by Michelle she has expressed how much I love my kids too I cried so much after reading this... and everything seems to become so small 为什么老天爷你要跟我开这种玩笑？ 为什么你要这样对我的宝贝？ 为什么你这么得空不去惩罚坏人，要来欺负我的Bernard? 不要这样好吗？ 求求你！求求你! 我一怀孕，就很开心，十个月很难才挨过去 很痛的把他生下来 请你不要随便就把他call回去，绝对不要！ 如果Berbard会好，我愿意减20年的寿命 其他的时间让我看着他成长，陪着他 求求你老天爷 我的命是很不值钱，可是可以用来换Bernard的健康吗？ 你看看，有多少人为他担心？ 多少人为他祝福， 你 感受到吗？ 我求你了 我真的求求你了 我们一家人真的不能没有他！ _________________________________________________________________________ 宝贝一看到我，马上紧紧的拉着我的手 看着宝贝的嘴巴和鼻子插满了呼吸器 心里真的很痛 我知道他在哭 因为嘴巴插着呼吸管所以根本听不到他的哭声 我就跟他说了很多很多话 叫他要勇敢忍过这一关，以后就什么都不怕了 他安静了，轮到妈咪他们进去看baby 大家轮流进去看他 之后他开始挣扎 医生要我进去哄他睡觉 我就进来了 跟宝贝说话 他还在乱针扎 我说妈咪跑去楼下买玩具给你 不知道为什么 他的手本来是绑在布里面的 他伸出来像要牵着我 叫我不要走 我就叫洁莹去买 等着新玩具 开着他喜欢的音乐 他也慢慢地睡着了 ................ 心脏显示器看到他的心脏很不稳定 医生就叫大家进来看baby 我一直说， 黄英杰 妈咪叫你 不要跟魔鬼走 妈咪牵着你 不怕 快点走回来妈咪这里 心跳 已经 ____________________ 0 了 很紧张 大家拼命的叫着他的名 我老公叫他 他马上就回来了 不久后 心跳就停了 当然我还是不放弃的一直叫他 心跳 43 我看了很紧张也很开心 之后心脏显示器 突然停了 医生杀出一句 谁出来办手续 T——T 我说？ 蛤？可以开刀了阿？ 医生回答 已经没有了 顿时一片沉默 我一时反应不过来 5秒后 我大哭了 我跪下来救医生再救我的儿子 可是医生对我摇摇头 我的心真的很冷 很冷 握着宝贝的手还是热热的 可是他的身体已经没有动静了 ...... 我看 是我的宝贝累了 怕了 他选择离开了 身上粘着死亡证书 read more 那天去问神 它说，孩子走的时候是观音带他走的 所以他是睡着走的 没有任何大力的挣扎 因为不想让他在被病魔折磨 所以先把他带走 我问回神，那孩子去那里了 他也说，观音带着他，会照顾他别担心 这个孩子不健康他带走 一定会把他还给我，而且会还我一个健康康德 叫我要乖乖 怀孕不能再喝冷水了 好 我听话。孩子，妈咪会注意饮食 给你一个健康的身体 等你回来 我相信回来的一定是你 我相信 我相信 不止妈咪爹地在等你 你知道吗？大家给你祝福 大家给你力量 他们也在等你 还有很多姐姐寄来的衣服玩具 妈咪都会留给你 以后长大，你要自己谢谢他们哦 =） 宝贝，你真的很幸福 很多人疼你 我弟弟说 姐姐，不要再觉得可惜了 过了 你看看 BERNARD —— 7个月大的baby 他的风光 连6，70岁的老人都比不上 你应该感到 安慰 光荣了 因为这不是谁都能拥有的 宝贝很有人缘 大家都帮忙祝福他 大家都喜欢他 他的在世界一定很幸福 很好命 所以不能再因为我的一滴眼泪 让他在那里辛苦 所以，我会振作 我要加油 我会等你 孩子 ， 妈咪爱你 So sorry to hear about her lost and sending my condolences to her and her family. Goddess of mercy will surely take good care of him and return her a healthy baby. Hope she can be strong! Life is fragile, treasure everyone who came into your life.. Labels: Words for you ADVERTISEMENTS
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date: Tuesday, July 20, 2010 time : 2:40 PM Life is tough, but I'm looking at the bright side :D  and if you have the ability to laugh at it you have the ability to enjoy it. Labels: Words for you |
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